Question What You Are Told

Perhaps you will object to what I am about to say, but I think understanding from a “felt” place allows us to feel empathy for others. So bear with me.

Here in Maine, many of us have gone through 3 very difficult days due to the mass killings in Lewiston— sadness for the loss of lives (18 people), and fear knowing the shooter was still somewhere out there.

Across the ocean there is another tragedy occurring where thousands of innocent people have been killed, including over 3,000 children. The sadness is deep for the loss of sons, daughters, husbands, wives, grandparents, aunts , uncles, cousins, friends. The fear is intense and unrelenting— people pushed out of their homes with nowhere to go that is safe. They plea to be heard; plea for the nightmare to stop—bombs falling on places they thought would be safe: schools, hospitals, churches. Food, clean water, fuel, medical supplies are nearly gone.

Response was quick, support made available, and non-stop efforts to find the perpetrator of the violence were put into place — tonight he was found, we are safe, and there is again a national call to ban assault weapons —President Biden taking the lead for the ban. Violence seen for what it is — a tragedy.

No one is coming to their rescue, no one who has decision-making power is trying to prevent the violence. More weapons are being given, more bombs are being dropped, ground troops are preparing to attack. President Biden is taking the lead in supporting Israel. Our leaders are unreservedly supporting those doing the killing. Self-defense they say.

Now from Gaza, no photos, no emails, no texts —no internet. Cut off from the rest of the world. The message is —we don’t want to ignite resistance to the plan. Don’t want the world to sympathize with the injured, dying, dead. Don’t want you to see the shaking babies, the crying children, the devastated mothers, the wasteland that is vast and growing.

This response couldn’t be more different than what we’ve just experienced here in Maine.

What will it take for us to “feel” into the truth? Palestinians are human beings just like we are. Their children are just as precious as my children and your children. What will it take for our eyes to open, our hearts to open— to truly understand that it is our duty as human beings to take care of one another— we are brothers and sisters.

And we should question. Question. Not assume what we are being told by our leaders is true. Because sometimes they don’t tell the truth. They certainly are NOT telling you the truth regarding the Palestinian people and Israel.

Please … question what you are being told.

3,000 children? Whether here or somewhere else, violence used to kill children is a tragedy. It’s a tragedy that needs to end.

Photo from FB post

“Why Are You Here?

October 22, 2023

Since the eruption of hostilities between Hamas and Israel on October 7th, several rallies and vigils have been held in Portland, Maine. We are standing in solidarity with others throughout the world to demand that Israel cease its attacks on Gaza and allow lifesaving supplies to enter through the Rafah Crossing which borders Egypt.

We demand that the US end its unconditional support of and financial aid to Israel and hold Israel accountable for its criminal actions against the Palestinian people over the last 75 years, including its life-strangling siege of Gaza these last 16 years.

My social media has been filled with desperate pleas for help from Palestinian friends accompanied by deeply disturbing images of injured and dead children, their grieving parents, and exhausted medical and rescue workers.

Food, water, medical necessities and fuel are quickly running out. If not directly killed from the bombings, many people are at risk of dying from illness and lack of life saving basic supplies.

As of today, UNRWA* reports 4,385 Palestinian people have been killed since October 7th including 1,756 children and 967 women; 13,561 persons have been injured; nearly a million people are displaced from their homes. In the West Bank, tensions are mounting and the number of Palestinians killed by Israeli forces or settlers during this same time period is 90, including 27 children. Without question, this is genocide. And the world is watching the horror unfold day-by-day.

To be clear— the loss, too, of Israeli lives (1400) and the abduction of 210 Israeli citizens are horrific. But how Israel is responding is grossly disproportionate and unconscionable —It is retaliatory collective punishment and illegal by international law.

Important to remember is how this horror could even have happened. A 16-year siege punctuated by violent attacks, ongoing deprivation, and dehumanizing treatment by Israel have created life-denying, hopeless conditions for Palestinians living in Gaza. Such conditions breed despair and from despair, acts of desperation.

It is crucial that this context be understood and broad and deep systemic changes in the Holy Land (political, social, economic, etc) be made once this crisis is over so that such a tragedy as is happening right now never happens again.

However, before any systemic change can happen, the killing and displacement of Palestinians must end and the hostages must be released unharmed. Both must happen—now.

At a rally last week, I asked a few participants “why are you here?” Please listen to their responses.

*https://www.unrwa.org/resources/reports/unrwa-situation-report-11-gaza-strip-and-west-bank-including-east-jerusalem

http://www.haaretz.com / October 22, 2023 Amos Harel and Jack Khoury

Tragedy in the Holy Land

October 7, 2023

It is heartbreaking the tragedy that is unfolding in the “Holy Land”. I fear for the safety of my dear Palestinian and Israeli friends and for all people in the region. Sadly, however, what is happening is not surprising— such are the effects of trauma heaped upon trauma. Without the deep healing necessary for a healthy psyche and for healthy relationships, the generational effects of unresolved trauma on both sides only continue to manifest in reactive, harmful, even destructive ways. This applies to individuals, families, organizations, communities, and to entire societies.

The US has been a complicit ally to Israel— we have aided Israel in its unrelenting abuse of the Palestinian people. We ignore the effects of the abuse that only someone who cannot see or someone who does not care can ignore. We haven’t stepped in to say a resounding “NO!’ to the perpetration of Israel’s treatment of Palestinians. We have not held Israel accountable. We repeatedly have turned away from the non-violent pleas from Palestinians and many Israelis for justice and recognition of full human rights for Palestinians.

Then, Hamas retaliates and now we’re paying attention— What is wrong with this picture?

Smoke and flames billow after Israeli forces struck a high-rise tower in Gaza City [Ashraf Amra/Reuters] Taken from Al-Jazeera, October 7, 2023